If a person says and/or does something, should the person take responsibility for, and be held accountable for, and accept the consequences of his or her own words and/or actions?
Some people see attributes in other people that displease them, but do not see those same attributes within themselves. Isn't that hypocrisy? Pot-Kettle-Black syndrome? In their own minds, they see it in others, but not in themselves.
Those same persons in paragraph two would answer "yes" to the question posed in paragraph one, but only apply that "yes" to other people and not to themselves. I have had far too many experiences with far too many people who fit into this category.